Diddy Was In ‘Polyamorous’ Relationship w/ Kim Porter!!

Sean Diddy Combs didn’t have the healthiest relationship with late ex-girlfriend Kim Porter. Though the pair undoubtedly liked one another, Diddy was recognized to step out of his relationship fairly just a few occasions. Explaining himself, Diddy implied to his spouse that what he was doing as merely in his nature.

How Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs defined his dishonest to spouse Kim Porter

Diddy was very forthcoming concerning his infidelities in his extra mature years. His lack of dedication, which helped result in his break up with Jennifer Lopez, was one thing he cautioned girls must cope with.

“If I’m in a relationship with you, like 25 percent of your time you’re gon’ feel like, ‘Oh man, I hate being here, oh man I hate this guy. Oh man, he cheated on me, he lied on me,’” Diddy as soon as informed The Breakfast Club. “That’s 25 percent, know what I’m saying?”

However Diddy additionally asserted that it will at all times be price relationship him ultimately.

“But then there’s 75 percent of ‘I’m gonna make you the happiest woman in the whole wide world.’ I’m going to be there to support your dreams, I’m going to be there to hold you, listen to you,” he added. “I’m going to be there to be your best friend and I promise you’ll smile the most. You know who I am, this is what it is. 25 percent, 75 percent, which deal would you choose?”

For Porter, that 75 % would possibly’ve been price it contemplating how lengthy she caught beside Diddy. The pair dated on and off all through the 90s, and solely lastly formally known as it quits in 2007. Throughout their turbulent relationship, each Porter and Diddy have been open concerning the music mogul’s previous transgressions. In an interview each as soon as did with Essence, Diddy introduced in faith to defend his previous infidelities.

“Do you really think that God meant for a man to have just one wife?” Diddy stated. “Or a woman to have one husband? Do you think God meant it that way?”

Porter, nonetheless, couldn’t have disagreed with Diddy extra.

“Do you really want me having sex with some other man? You want that to happen?” she challenged.

“No, but God made us different,” Diddy responded.

However Porter nonetheless wasn’t shopping for Diddy’s logic.

“I could be just like you. I choose not to be,” she stated.

However the “All About the Benjamins” hitmaker confided that Porter was sufficient for him to vary his methods.

“This is the most monogamous I’ve ever been in my life…that’s all I’m trying to say,” she stated.

Kim Porter had her awakening when Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs impregnated one other lady

In the mid 2000s, Diddy stepped out of his relationship with Porter once more. However this time, Diddy made issues worse by getting his different girlfriend pregnant, including a brand new addition to his growing family. Diddy had a short fling with Sarah Chapman on the time, with the pair giving beginning to their daughter Likelihood Chapman in 2006. Porter was additionally pregnant round that point as nicely, anticipating twins D’Lila Star and Jessie James. Porter heard from a mutual buddy about Diddy’s romance with Chapman, which impressed the previous mannequin to do some deep investigating.

“I wasn’t even coming from the place of who, what, why,” Porter as soon as informed Essence (by way of People). “I laid low and did what women do: I did my background work, collected information [about the other woman]. But I wasn’t even on it like that because I was pregnant, and what was bubbling inside me was a blessing from God. I couldn’t let my energy be on that. I didn’t have time for any drama, trauma and bulls***.”

However even perhaps then, Porter would possibly’ve nonetheless given Diddy one more likelihood if he informed her concerning the affair himself.

“I would have preferred to find out from him because that’s a man,” she added. “I know it’s hard for anyone to say to their significant other, ‘I’ve gotten into some s*** and I got a baby on the way.’ But men do get caught up in things; I’m not naive to that. Still, there’s a right and a wrong way to handle it. Because, most of all, we were friends. Even if I couldn’t have understood it as a woman, I would have understood it as a friend.”